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The marriages of Taiyuan have always been regarded as a lifelong event. In the process of specific marriage, it shows a unique style of rituals.
. In the city, in the city, marriage must go through four procedures:
The speech, commonly known as media. With relatives and friends, they said that they were sent to Geng posts after marriage.
In the employment, hiring, the gift is the jewelry and the like.
In the date, that is, determine the wedding date. The man prepares clothing, made happy cakes, and sent the post post to the woman.
In marriage, the day before the wedding, the female family sent makeup; the male family returned to sake, pig head, steamed roll and other gifts, commonly known as "upper". On the wedding day, the general groom did not get married in person and only prepared a car. Please ask two middle -aged women to make makeup. A pair of red lights, drum music. The female family invited two older women to make her makeup to send the bride. After the uncle, the female family also invited two relatives with the crown belt to the daughter -in -law, commonly known as "male to send relatives". At this point, the wedding instrument was over. The next day after marriage, the newlywed couple worshiped their ancestors, parents and relatives. The female family will send wine to the daughter -in -law on this day. On the ninth day of marriage, the newlywed couple met her father -in -law's mother -in -law, and returned that day, which was called "back to nine". At Miyue, he went back again. The groom returned home.
The in the early Republic of China, two new and old wedding rituals. The old man's custom will roughly attack the Qing Dynasty, and the biggest change is "welcoming" (that is, the groom to marry the female house). The process of gifts is as: matchmakers are cut, and both sides are asked to change their posts on the day. They will send four -color gifts each day. The male family is nothing more than jewelry. The man set a time to marry, notify the media two months ago and post to the woman. One month or forty days before marrying, chose the day to hire (that is, the ancient "Nazai"). Gift gifts, and look at the gifts used by the son -in -law. On the day of the marriage, the female family sent her makeup to the male house, commonly known as "send dowry", and the male family used the second or fourth multiplication of Xicou. The woman's house invited the guests to entertain, and the groom thanked him, and returned with the bride by car. During the worship ceremony, you must ask Shushou to wish his life, commonly known as "worshiping heaven and earth". After the ceremony, the bride was led by the bride. The next day or on the day of the wedding, the newlywed couple made up makeup to worship ancestors, relatives and friends, commonly known as "ginseng stove". On the third day or six days, the newlywed couple went to the door.
The old weddings in the Qing Dynasty and the Republic of China were just about the process. There are still many restrans and vulgar believers in each program. In terms of post -style, there are straw posts, fixed posts, posts, replies, Geng posts and marriage books, re -recruitment books, signs, wealth lists, list of wealth, and so on. The two sides were allowed to marry, exchanged Geng posts, and the birthday of the two sides of the book, whether the fortune -telling was combined. Mr. Yin and Yang must be Mr. Yin and Yang. Both parties have to pay for wealth and wealth. There are still many taboos in the process of the wedding instrument. The entire marriage process is full of decreased, superstition and feudal etiquette.
In contrast, the wedding instrument in the middle of the Republic of China is greatly reduced.
Bet before marriage, both men and women exchange token and fixed marriage posts. After the male family determined that the marriage date was determined, the woman sought the woman's consent in writing, that is, to organize it, to inform relatives and friends, and to select the wedding hall. At that time, there were wedding people in the church, as well as a wedding person in the hall, restaurant or home. In front of the door, the lights were linked, and the people were even more open. There are several cases in the auditorium, and the groom, bride, the married person, the witnesses, the introducer, and the male and female guests will be held in a certain seat. When marrying, you no longer use flower sedan and ceremonies, and switch to floats (cars or carriages). After the wedding ceremony, photography is commemorative. Although this kind of wedding has begun to present a modern civilization, it is still suspected of waste, especially for guests to give gifts, and it is difficult to afford the poor. Therefore, there were customs for Western or refreshments at the time.
The wedding customs in the suburbs of Taiyuan are very different from the city, showing colorful. The wedding customs area of Xuou are the most distinctive:
During the engagement, the matchmaker or Qi You came forward. The home is interchangeable with the birthday of the birthday. The life is right and starts a blind date. Blind dates are divided into "vision" and "stealing phase". During the appearance, the matchmaker quoted the male and his parents to the female family blind date, while the phase was left as a book, commonly known as the "record". In order to prevent blind dates from being unhappy with women, they mostly use stolen phase, that is, in the theater or relative neighbor's family. If you steal more satisfaction, you will be in the bright phase.
S selection of Jiyi, the two of them have red posts and gifts, commonly known as "sending posts". Through this procedure, it is scheduled for engagement.
The male home determines the wedding period, choose a good day to notify the woman, and at the same time send the wedding clothing to the female home, commonly known as "communication".
The on the day of marriage, the male family prepared four or four times of the sedan, the drum music and the thin (guard of honor), the groom worshiped the ancestral axis and went to the female house to marry. At the same time, the extension of the affair (meritorious) one person accompanied the groom, called "marrying guests". The female family must also choose the man bridesmaid in the relatives, calling it "to send guests." There are also two people who marry and send guests. They are called "double marriages".
During the chapel, the groom was guided by Zanli, and the bride was supported by two women.
The days after marriage, the female family took the groom and bride to return to her mother's house, set up a feast, commonly known as "change ten days". At this point, the entire wedding instrument was ended.
It from the beginning to the end of the marriage, there are a few vulgarities in each step:
In the engagement day, after the woman's decorative coins, use the root valley seedlings and copper , Iron and Plugs in one piece of return to the man.
The communication day, the woman's return is a pair of chopsticks, a wine bottle full of honey, a pair of sides of the lion, a pair of tigers, one pomegranate, and one piece of copper, iron, and glue.
The wedding day, chicken or dawn, the bride and groom have to eat breakfast.
In wedding day morning, the bride had to post a full woman (with parents, children, husband), and the direction of their sitting and the time of good times were specified according to Mr. Yin and Yang. Put a chair on the hoe, a brick in front of the chair, a bucket of water under the chair, the bride sitting on the chair, a complete woman sang while using a fan, "sitting in a chair, a fan, and a girl who waited for a lifetime. "
Whether the groom and the bride, even in the summer of the summer, the wedding day must wear cotton or cotton pants.
Is when the groom is married to the bride, he must steal a pair of chopsticks and a wine glass. Someone picked two bottles of wine in the thin (ceremonial battle), and the Yue family left a bottle, and the other bottle was picked back to the man's house. In the evening, it is boiled with Yuejia water, commonly known as "Heqi soup". When the newcomer eats, some people wish: "Mom's water, mother -in -law's home, and longevity noodles of Qiqi soup, bean sprouts doll a chain."
When the bride enters the sedan, the elders or brothers must be carried into the sedan Essence
In enter the men's door, praise the ritual first lit the grass on the left and right, and then sprinkle with the horse's grass installed with a bucket (or wicker barrel), and place the saddle in front of the car to order the groom to skip the groom passing by Essence The groom and bride must step on the grasshopper or red felt. At the same time, the praise of the ritual axis, a waist knife, and a copper mirror tied to the groom. These three things have always been in the cave's brides for ten days.
In after entering the cave, the groom boarded the puppet, and then the bride sat on the cymbal. The groom stood beside the bride and made an arrow to make a look at the square, and then the party unveiled the bride's cover and picked the bride's hidden in her arms.
The next morning after the wedding, the new woman must comb in the neighbors, and the combing of her hair, "A wooden comb, two dumplings, raising dolls to wear Xiangzi" and so on.
The vulgar believers during the wedding process have a certain meaning, or take their homophonic, or the meaning of the matter, or to the symbol. Rich and longevity. Gu Miao has the meaning of Jiahe, symbolizes auspiciousness; copper and iron meaning is strong; glue symbolizes couples and beauty, like glue -like paint; honey meaning is sweet; chopsticks indicate that couples are paired, and they are old; It is thick and practical; sitting on the bucket is to hope that life is smooth; pomegranate aparts into a multi -child; when the bride enters the car, it means that he will not stick to his mother's soil, afraid of taking away the luck of his mother's family, and so on.
The contraindication is also full of wedding meters. Mr. Yin and Yang must be selected by Mr. Yin and Yang before marriage, and they must be beneficial to both men and women and family elders. Those who have obstacles, meet with the wedding day; marry, send guests, bride, and the bride's eyelids, etc., and their belongs must be collided with the newcomers; Essence When you marry, you meet the stone along the road. You must use the red earth to draw a "ten" characters. The taboos here, with a strong superstition, the purpose is to avoid murder. This negative anti -belief behavior and means, which is under the condition of backward production, underdeveloped science, and low consciousness of people. With the development of science and technology and the improvement of productivity, people have gradually realized the ignorance of taboos, which is rare in contemporary times.
The most nostalgic is the marriage customs from the late 5o period to the early 1970s. Both men and women understand each other for a while through free love or introduction, and the two sides are in love with each other, that is, register for marriage. One new clothes, two beds in two beds; cleaning tea, candy cigarettes are the things to be treated; All the rest of the procedure ceremony is not possible.
In recent years, the marriage customs have a great trend in some ways, and some new vulgarity has gradually formed.
The first is a gift. In the late 1970s, the gift was generally three to five yuan.
The second is a luxury banquet, mostly in the restaurant, and there are dozens of tables on the table. atmosphere.
The third is the pursuit of gas, wedding day, more sedan to welcomes the bride, most of them have several cars, van or bus, the team is mighty, the scene is magnificent, including car rental, There are not a few people using bus.
The fourth is rich in dowry. From the 1970s to the early 1980s, it was generally only pursuing new furniture furnishings. At that time, there were "thirty -six legs" and later "72 legs" It is said that wedding costumes are nothing more than hairy clothes. The utensils are nothing more than bicycles and watches. At present, in addition to high -end furniture, refrigerators such as refrigerators, color TVs, audio, and washing machines are necessary. The decoration has developed to gold jewelry, fur clothing and the like.
The fifth is the ritual and superstition. When you get married, pay attention to opening the door money, open the box money, choose a good day, see the belonging, the love of the face and the lunar are vividly performed in the contemporary marriage customs.
The new vulgarity in the wedding customs of Taiyuan people in the past few years will be fired in the middle of the night. The sound of at midnight, awakening thousands of dreams, and with the joy of one family, causing the worry of the left neighbor and right house, it is a very uncivilized behavior. In fact, it is not auspicious in the middle of the night. It is rumored that the widow in the southern my country only fired in the middle of the night. After the ban on artillery in recent years, the bad habits of the firing in the middle of the night have been eliminated.
In marriage selection is also a common custom behavior in Taiyuan in recent years. It's even more auspicious. In the ancient wedding of the Ji Ji, the man was called "request". One important meaning is to avoid the men's menstrual period and make "Yangjia Yinhe" ("Yili · Shi Xunli"). Later generations, superstitions are rampant, but the ancient people's scientific intention was unknown. In fact, the ancient choice of Ji Ji had a set of attention, the purpose was to avoid fierce evils such as Tai Sui. It was not selected on the 3rd, 6th, and 9th. Qing Qian Daxin's "Ten Driving Zhai Yang Recreation" tells the story of choosing a good fortune: Emperor Han Xiaowu had a party and asked: "Can you marry a woman one day?" Hold one end. The five experts replied that it was okay. The Kanyu family said no. The Jianjia family thought that it was not good. The Cong Chen family thought that the fierce was great. The crowds of divination argued that they could not help uniformly. In the end, Emperor Han Xiaowu had to barely adopt the saying of five experts. If you are divining, you have to get married for life.
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The marriages of Taiyuan have always been regarded as a lifelong event. In the process of specific marriage, it shows a unique style of rituals.
. In the city, in the city, marriage must go through four procedures:
The speech, commonly known as media. With relatives and friends, they said that they were sent to Geng posts after marriage.
In the employment, hiring, the gift is the jewelry and the like.
In the date, that is, determine the wedding date. The man prepares clothing, made happy cakes, and sent the post post to the woman.
In marriage, the day before the wedding, the female family sent makeup; the male family returned to sake, pig head, steamed roll and other gifts, commonly known as "upper". On the wedding day, the general groom did not get married in person and only prepared a car. Please ask two middle -aged women to make makeup. A pair of red lights, drum music. The female family invited two older women to make her makeup to send the bride. After the uncle, the female family also invited two relatives with the crown belt to the daughter -in -law, commonly known as "male to send relatives". At this point, the wedding instrument was over. The next day after marriage, the newlywed couple worshiped their ancestors, parents and relatives. The female family will send wine to the daughter -in -law on this day. On the ninth day of marriage, the newlywed couple met her father -in -law's mother -in -law, and returned that day, which was called "back to nine". At Miyue, he went back again. The groom returned home.
The in the early Republic of China, two new and old wedding rituals. The old man's custom will roughly attack the Qing Dynasty, and the biggest change is "welcoming" (that is, the groom to marry the female house). The process of gifts is as: matchmakers are cut, and both sides are asked to change their posts on the day. They will send four -color gifts each day. The male family is nothing more than jewelry. The man set a time to marry, notify the media two months ago and post to the woman. One month or forty days before marrying, chose the day to hire (that is, the ancient "Nazai"). Gift gifts, and look at the gifts used by the son -in -law. On the day of the marriage, the female family sent her makeup to the male house, commonly known as "send dowry", and the male family used the second or fourth multiplication of Xicou. The woman's house invited the guests to entertain, and the groom thanked him, and returned with the bride by car. During the worship ceremony, you must ask Shushou to wish his life, commonly known as "worshiping heaven and earth". After the ceremony, the bride was led by the bride. The next day or on the day of the wedding, the newlywed couple made up makeup to worship ancestors, relatives and friends, commonly known as "ginseng stove". On the third day or six days, the newlywed couple went to the door.
The old weddings in the Qing Dynasty and the Republic of China were just about the process. There are still many restrans and vulgar believers in each program. In terms of post -style, there are straw posts, fixed posts, posts, replies, Geng posts and marriage books, re -recruitment books, signs, wealth lists, list of wealth, and so on. The two sides were allowed to marry, exchanged Geng posts, and the birthday of the two sides of the book, whether the fortune -telling was combined. Mr. Yin and Yang must be Mr. Yin and Yang. Both parties have to pay for wealth and wealth. There are still many taboos in the process of the wedding instrument. The entire marriage process is full of decreased, superstition and feudal etiquette.
In contrast, the wedding instrument in the middle of the Republic of China is greatly reduced.
Bet before marriage, both men and women exchange token and fixed marriage posts. After the male family determined that the marriage date was determined, the woman sought the woman's consent in writing, that is, to organize it, to inform relatives and friends, and to select the wedding hall. At that time, there were wedding people in the church, as well as a wedding person in the hall, restaurant or home. In front of the door, the lights were linked, and the people were even more open. There are several cases in the auditorium, and the groom, bride, the married person, the witnesses, the introducer, and the male and female guests will be held in a certain seat. When marrying, you no longer use flower sedan and ceremonies, and switch to floats (cars or carriages). After the wedding ceremony, photography is commemorative. Although this kind of wedding has begun to present a modern civilization, it is still suspected of waste, especially for guests to give gifts, and it is difficult to afford the poor. Therefore, there were customs for Western or refreshments at the time.
The wedding customs in the suburbs of Taiyuan are very different from the city, showing colorful. The wedding customs area of Xuou are the most distinctive:
During the engagement, the matchmaker or Qi You came forward. The home is interchangeable with the birthday of the birthday. The life is right and starts a blind date. Blind dates are divided into "vision" and "stealing phase". During the appearance, the matchmaker quoted the male and his parents to the female family blind date, while the phase was left as a book, commonly known as the "record". In order to prevent blind dates from being unhappy with women, they mostly use stolen phase, that is, in the theater or relative neighbor's family. If you steal more satisfaction, you will be in the bright phase.
S selection of Jiyi, the two of them have red posts and gifts, commonly known as "sending posts". Through this procedure, it is scheduled for engagement.
The male home determines the wedding period, choose a good day to notify the woman, and at the same time send the wedding clothing to the female home, commonly known as "communication".
The on the day of marriage, the male family prepared four or four times of the sedan, the drum music and the thin (guard of honor), the groom worshiped the ancestral axis and went to the female house to marry. At the same time, the extension of the affair (meritorious) one person accompanied the groom, called "marrying guests". The female family must also choose the man bridesmaid in the relatives, calling it "to send guests." There are also two people who marry and send guests. They are called "double marriages".
During the chapel, the groom was guided by Zanli, and the bride was supported by two women.
The days after marriage, the female family took the groom and bride to return to her mother's house, set up a feast, commonly known as "change ten days". At this point, the entire wedding instrument was ended.
It from the beginning to the end of the marriage, there are a few vulgarities in each step:
In the engagement day, after the woman's decorative coins, use the root valley seedlings and copper , Iron and Plugs in one piece of return to the man.
The communication day, the woman's return is a pair of chopsticks, a wine bottle full of honey, a pair of sides of the lion, a pair of tigers, one pomegranate, and one piece of copper, iron, and glue.
The wedding day, chicken or dawn, the bride and groom have to eat breakfast.
In wedding day morning, the bride had to post a full woman (with parents, children, husband), and the direction of their sitting and the time of good times were specified according to Mr. Yin and Yang. Put a chair on the hoe, a brick in front of the chair, a bucket of water under the chair, the bride sitting on the chair, a complete woman sang while using a fan, "sitting in a chair, a fan, and a girl who waited for a lifetime. "
Whether the groom and the bride, even in the summer of the summer, the wedding day must wear cotton or cotton pants.
Is when the groom is married to the bride, he must steal a pair of chopsticks and a wine glass. Someone picked two bottles of wine in the thin (ceremonial battle), and the Yue family left a bottle, and the other bottle was picked back to the man's house. In the evening, it is boiled with Yuejia water, commonly known as "Heqi soup". When the newcomer eats, some people wish: "Mom's water, mother -in -law's home, and longevity noodles of Qiqi soup, bean sprouts doll a chain."
When the bride enters the sedan, the elders or brothers must be carried into the sedan Essence
In enter the men's door, praise the ritual first lit the grass on the left and right, and then sprinkle with the horse's grass installed with a bucket (or wicker barrel), and place the saddle in front of the car to order the groom to skip the groom passing by Essence The groom and bride must step on the grasshopper or red felt. At the same time, the praise of the ritual axis, a waist knife, and a copper mirror tied to the groom. These three things have always been in the cave's brides for ten days.
In after entering the cave, the groom boarded the puppet, and then the bride sat on the cymbal. The groom stood beside the bride and made an arrow to make a look at the square, and then the party unveiled the bride's cover and picked the bride's hidden in her arms.
The next morning after the wedding, the new woman must comb in the neighbors, and the combing of her hair, "A wooden comb, two dumplings, raising dolls to wear Xiangzi" and so on.
The vulgar believers during the wedding process have a certain meaning, or take their homophonic, or the meaning of the matter, or to the symbol. Rich and longevity. Gu Miao has the meaning of Jiahe, symbolizes auspiciousness; copper and iron meaning is strong; glue symbolizes couples and beauty, like glue -like paint; honey meaning is sweet; chopsticks indicate that couples are paired, and they are old; It is thick and practical; sitting on the bucket is to hope that life is smooth; pomegranate aparts into a multi -child; when the bride enters the car, it means that he will not stick to his mother's soil, afraid of taking away the luck of his mother's family, and so on.
The contraindication is also full of wedding meters. Mr. Yin and Yang must be selected by Mr. Yin and Yang before marriage, and they must be beneficial to both men and women and family elders. Those who have obstacles, meet with the wedding day; marry, send guests, bride, and the bride's eyelids, etc., and their belongs must be collided with the newcomers; Essence When you marry, you meet the stone along the road. You must use the red earth to draw a "ten" characters. The taboos here, with a strong superstition, the purpose is to avoid murder. This negative anti -belief behavior and means, which is under the condition of backward production, underdeveloped science, and low consciousness of people. With the development of science and technology and the improvement of productivity, people have gradually realized the ignorance of taboos, which is rare in contemporary times.
The most nostalgic is the marriage customs from the late 5o period to the early 1970s. Both men and women understand each other for a while through free love or introduction, and the two sides are in love with each other, that is, register for marriage. One new clothes, two beds in two beds; cleaning tea, candy cigarettes are the things to be treated; All the rest of the procedure ceremony is not possible.
In recent years, the marriage customs have a great trend in some ways, and some new vulgarity has gradually formed.
The first is a gift. In the late 1970s, the gift was generally three to five yuan.
The second is a luxury banquet, mostly in the restaurant, and there are dozens of tables on the table. atmosphere.
The third is the pursuit of gas, wedding day, more sedan to welcomes the bride, most of them have several cars, van or bus, the team is mighty, the scene is magnificent, including car rental, There are not a few people using bus.
The fourth is rich in dowry. From the 1970s to the early 1980s, it was generally only pursuing new furniture furnishings. At that time, there were "thirty -six legs" and later "72 legs" It is said that wedding costumes are nothing more than hairy clothes. The utensils are nothing more than bicycles and watches. At present, in addition to high -end furniture, refrigerators such as refrigerators, color TVs, audio, and washing machines are necessary. The decoration has developed to gold jewelry, fur clothing and the like.
The fifth is the ritual and superstition. When you get married, pay attention to opening the door money, open the box money, choose a good day, see the belonging, the love of the face and the lunar are vividly performed in the contemporary marriage customs.
The new vulgarity in the wedding customs of Taiyuan people in the past few years will be fired in the middle of the night. The sound of at midnight, awakening thousands of dreams, and with the joy of one family, causing the worry of the left neighbor and right house, it is a very uncivilized behavior. In fact, it is not auspicious in the middle of the night. It is rumored that the widow in the southern my country only fired in the middle of the night. After the ban on artillery in recent years, the bad habits of the firing in the middle of the night have been eliminated.
In marriage selection is also a common custom behavior in Taiyuan in recent years. It's even more auspicious. In the ancient wedding of the Ji Ji, the man was called "request". One important meaning is to avoid the men's menstrual period and make "Yangjia Yinhe" ("Yili · Shi Xunli"). Later generations, superstitions are rampant, but the ancient people's scientific intention was unknown. In fact, the ancient choice of Ji Ji had a set of attention, the purpose was to avoid fierce evils such as Tai Sui. It was not selected on the 3rd, 6th, and 9th. Qing Qian Daxin's "Ten Driving Zhai Yang Recreation" tells the story of choosing a good fortune: Emperor Han Xiaowu had a party and asked: "Can you marry a woman one day?" Hold one end. The five experts replied that it was okay. The Kanyu family said no. The Jianjia family thought that it was not good. The Cong Chen family thought that the fierce was great. The crowds of divination argued that they could not help uniformly. In the end, Emperor Han Xiaowu had to barely adopt the saying of five experts. If you are divining, you have to get married for life.
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