I AM THE ORDINARY PARENTS OF AN ORDINARY FAMILY, BEFORE SINGLE TIME NEVER HAD THE TROUBLE THAT LETS ONESELF WORRY WITH PAIN NOW SIMILAR, ESTIMATE THE PARENT THAT MAJORITY TAKES A CHILD ALSO IS SAME WITH ME ALSO FOR HOW TO EDUCATE A CHILD BUT SUFFER!
Why is a three-year-old jumping up and down? Why do the second grade students love to do small movements in class, focus is not enough; why adult textbook type of pale preaching, the child is rebellious, the more hands to hit the child, the child is not obedient, still put our gas half dead, the child's academic performance not to go up, the work also has no idea.
I share my views on education from the following aspects, and encourage you!
One, we have not grown up how to ask children?
I believe that most of my friends are about the same age as me 39bet-xì dách-phỏm miền bắc-tiến lên miền bắc-xóc đĩa-game bắn cá. Most of them were born in the 1980s and 1990s. They don't have any idea, knowledge or skills to educate their children. We now ask children to do things, behavior habits, manners and words, chicken soup, truth, most of which are the part of the "truth" that parents instilled in us from childhood, and then unthinkingly copy and paste it to innocent children; or mixed with their own sensibility and buckle a good hat for you. We can't digest the rights and wrongs of the many things, how to absorb the nutritious things to the child. The only one in the world there is no research career is to be parents, but we want to be good parents who need to constantly learn, improve themselves, more need to correct their attitude, keep son education learning skills, do a qualified "manhandle" parents.
Two, stand in the child's perspective.
To every child, everyone has their own different places, have their own advantages, disadvantages, flash, our parents are the judge, justice judgment to identify and find the advantage of our children, and then, of course, on the wrong problem have to tolerance, help children to correct, no one is perfect, gold without pure gold. Lead your child to the right path.
Stand in the children's point of view to consider, summer children like to eat ice cream, do not love to cover the quilt at night, at home like to watch mobile phones, watch cartoons, these you have considered?
Children like to eat ice cream to buy one, occasionally need to exercise restraint and let him know that ice cream is not a staple food, eat many bad to the body, children like to watch cartoons let him look, appropriate relax more conducive to better learning, now like to play with mobile phones, because a lot of parents every day in the play, nobody play with him, he certainly to play mobile phone, the child he had to find a thing to do! Put yourself in your child's place and you will feel that the child is really funny and simple. My little every day when he came home from work to open the door, he would come running to call dad, dad. Instantly my heart is crisp, and then let me hold him. That feeling is really the most beautiful feeling in the world.
Give your child space, but don't interfere too much.
Our hair is long to get a haircut, the tree grew up to repair, these are education, hair is long to get a haircut, will spirit, not angry, beautiful, in short, good for the body, the tree will grow up a lot of branches, or repair, he will not grow tall, not thrive, become.
Our children is the same, same kids growing up, our parents just his guardians, parents is the old barber, tree people, we need to do is, in the process of the growth of the seedlings to asylum, watch, sapling slanting to the centralizer, we can not replace him to grow up, some parents are too spoil their children, too much interference in the growth of children, Children can't eat what they want, can't wear what they want, can't watch what they want, can't do what they want, then what is the meaning of your existence? Children and not criminals. He has his own ideas, free. My boss is now in second grade. Also, he can't help to say before children, even personal attacks, language intimidation, violence, but since I read books, learned a lot of things, and constantly thinking, I will not, because such education will only make a child more cowardly, timid, let alone in the future? The age of 3-7 is the golden period for the formation of children's behaviors and habits. Parents should pay attention and learn more. I recommend parents and friends to read more good books to purify and sublimate their heart and attitude.